There are small habits or skills which all couples who  have successful relationships seem to have in common. Ten of these are outlined below and all are easy to include in your relationship.

1.  Look for something positive in each other every day and tell your partner.

At the start of the relationship, couples naturally do this but as time goes on and you become familiar and comfortable, you start to focus on the negative things.

There are probably a whole lot of things your partner does each day that are positive, but you will often only point out the negatives to them. This doesn’t make anybody feel good and makes you really aware of what is wrong with the relationship, not what is right. I’m not suggesting you ignore problems, just don’t make your relationship a problem focused one. The more you look for the good, the better you both feel about each other.

2.  Don’t try and fix each other. Read More